Month: September 2015

Let Them Be Leaders

Cynthia and Thomas Parker share a story of how faith and commitment to others can inspire success in life and in the workplace. By JENNIFER PUCCI STARR (Original publication from Elite Attorney San Antonio Sept – Oct 2015)


 

ParkersThe recipe for success, be it in business or just life in general, can take years to discover. For one San Antonio couple they drew inspiration from the challenges they faced to create a team of leaders, leaders within themselves and in their company Judicial Services Record Company. Cynthia and Thomas Parker, drew from faith the ability to build a happier, more successful and fulfilling life, and then made it their mission to offer this discovery to others, and they are happy to share that discovery with the world.

The Parkers started their journey as students and members of the band at South San High School in San Antonio. Thomas, the youngest of five children began working at an early age to help support his family, while Cynthia and her brother were pushed to focus on getting the most out of their education. In both instances they were given the drive to work hard from an early age by parents who wanted more for their children then they had themselves. As the two grew up together and fell in love, they found strength in both that similar drive instilled in them by their parents as well as the complimentary difference and became one another’s greatest champion.

When the duo found themselves pregnant with their first son, they made their first big sacrifice and commitment to their family. Thomas worked while Cynthia completed college at St. Mary’s University, together raising their son the best they could. Their son became their single greatest motivator to succeed. “My counselor said I should give up and just get a job, that an education for a young mother was pointless, but that was not an option.” Cynthia went on to study hard and make good grades, while Thomas focused on working hard to provide a good stable home.

Throughout this time, Thomas was also learning, but about his future, as he sought to find a career he could thrive in. After being laid off, his interests were piqued by an advertisement offering training the field of judicial services. Learning about these important services needed by courts and the people who found their way into them was fascinating to Thomas, and something he felt driven to do. “I fell in love with the concept of the industry and I knew this was something I was born to do.”

It was an exciting time, of discovery and growth, but a time that also met with challenges. Thomas struggled within companies that were not providing a stable work environment or job security. After being laid off Thomas knew that if he wanted to take this career to the next level, and to give his clients the best service, he needed to be the decision maker and Judicial Services Record Company was born. Clients who Thomas had worked with before starting the company were excited to move forward with the new company. The initial services of the company included retrieval of records that may often be quite difficult to track down and keep organized; the team streamlined the process and was able to provide an invaluable service to not only legal representatives and their clients, but also to insurance companies that often need access to hard to find documents. The company also offers online access to their services and training for clients who would like to access these search tools themselves.

Cynthia had graduated by this point and was moving along in her career as a process improvement specialist and a Manager at a credit union, serving the members of the armed forces. In the positions she traveled throughout the country, taking her away from home often. “I loved my members, it was a great organization, however I recall arriving home one day and realizing I longed for my family,” says Cynthia. After repeated requests by Thomas to join him in the business Cynthia decided she was ready to embark on this new venture with her husband, one where she could bring that love of client service to Judicial Services.

Starting a business, raising a family and working day in and day out with your spouse needed equal effort, letting one fail meant each would suffer. The business was moving along, yet the stressors were catching up to the duo and they knew they needed to seek a new path for guidance and support. “We visited Grace Point Church and realized here, that if we continued down a path where we felt compelled to do things on our own will, we would fail,” recalls Cynthia. “You can say we met God here and learned of his unconditional grace, his forgiveness and of His power. As it says in Matthew 19:26, ‘with man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.’”

Parkers at GLSFinding that inspiration in faith, the couple brought that right into their business practices. They were setting forth not only to do good for their clients, but to provide the inspiration to those who work for them to want to be the best they can be. “We serve our clients and we serve our staff,” says Cynthia. “Each staff member is a leader in life in many aspects; relationships, kids, sports teams. Therefore we wanted them to have all the fundamental skills needed to be leaders in their career.” Providing optional leadership classes for their staff such as ‘Defining your Leadership,’ ‘Grander Visions,” “Good to Great,” and other topics the couple strive to provide the best opportunity for growth, ultimately creating a positive working environment that they can feel happy returning to every day. For those who attended 80 percent or more of these classes, they were then sent to the Global Leadership Conference. “We have many high-level team members and without them I would not be sharing our story,” says Cynthia.

Going deeper into their faith, the couple needed to find the strength to move into another much needed area of service for their clients, court reporting. As a birthday present from her son the couple were gifted tickets to attend Tony Robbins’ conference in Dallas. At the event the couple took a different sort of leap of faith and tried fire walking, said to unleash the power within. “What we discovered was that God gifted each one of us with the confidence that anything is possible,” says Cynthia. “We faced fears symbolic in the red-hot coals, to claim the life that was intended.” The couple also came to the realization that they had set limitations to their business and after years of sending clients that needed court reporting away, it was now time to provide this service and become a one-stop organization for the judicial support their clients needed. The fire walking has not ceased for the Parker family, as they have sent both children to also experience this life-changing event. “Stay posted, we are also surveying the staff for volunteers,” says Cynthia enthusiastically.

Judicial Services, its leaders, and its team stress that its main focus is serving others. “It sounds cliché,” says Cynthia, “but we love and respect our clients like our family. Stretching to the ends of the world to make their service experience excellent. Our promise to our clients is that if they just give us a try, we will not let them down.” It is a group of professionals who are striving to provide excellent legal support, in all facets, nationwide. A life lesson can be learned from this courageous couple, one that if you give your all in what you believe and lift up others to greatness, the result is one of fulfillment and success.

Find out more about the work of Judicial Service Records Company by visiting, www.judicialservicessa.com or calling 210-681-4885.

The 15 Diseases Of Leadership, According To Pope Francis

In a message last year, Pope Francis warned about leadership diseases and temptations, which can dangerously weaken the effectiveness of any organization. Gary Hamel (TGLS 2009) translated his words into corporate-speak for this article in the Harvard Business Review. In light of the Pope’s visit to the United States last week, we thought it was worth another look.

Pope Francis has made no secret of his intention to radically reform the administrative structures of the Catholic Church, which he regards as insular, imperious, and bureaucratic. He understands that in a hyper-kinetic world, inward-looking and self-obsessed leaders are a liability.

Last year, just before Christmas, the Pope addressed the leaders of the Roman Curia — the Cardinals and other officials who are charged with running the church’s byzantine network of administrative bodies. The Pope’s message to his colleagues was blunt. Leaders are susceptible to an array of debilitating maladies, including arrogance, intolerance, myopia, and pettiness. When those diseases go untreated, the organization itself is enfeebled. To have a healthy church, we need healthy leaders.

Through the years, I’ve heard dozens of management experts enumerate the qualities of great leaders. Seldom, though, do they speak plainly about the “diseases” of leadership. The Pope is more forthright. He understands that as human beings we have certain proclivities — not all of them noble. Nevertheless, leaders should be held to a high standard, since their scope of influence makes their ailments particularly infectious.

The Catholic Church is a bureaucracy: a hierarchy populated by good-hearted, but less-than-perfect souls. In that sense, it’s not much different than your organization. That’s why the Pope’s counsel is relevant to leaders everywhere.

With that in mind, I spent a couple of hours translating the Pope’s address into something a little closer to corporate-speak. (I don’t know if there’s a prohibition on paraphrasing Papal pronouncements, but since I’m not Catholic, I’m willing to take the risk.)

Herewith, then, the Pope (more or less):

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The leadership team is called constantly to improve and to grow in rapport and wisdom, in order to carry out fully its mission. And yet, like any body, like any human body, it is also exposed to diseases, malfunctioning, infirmity. Here I would like to mention some of these “[leadership] diseases.” They are diseases and temptations which can dangerously weaken the effectiveness of any organization.

  1. The disease of thinking we are immortal, immune, or downright indispensable, [and therefore] neglecting the need for regular check-ups. A leadership team, which is not self-critical, which does not keep up with things, which does not seek to be more fit, is a sick body. A simple visit to the cemetery might help us see the names of many people who thought they were immortal, immune, and indispensable! It is the disease of those who turn into lords and masters, who think of themselves as above others and not at their service. It is the pathology of power and comes from a superiority complex, from a narcissism which passionately gazes at its own image and does not see the face of others, especially the weakest and those most in need. The antidote to this plague is humility; to say heartily, “I am merely a servant. I have only done what was my duty.”
  1. Another disease is excessive busyness.It is found in those who immerse themselves in work and inevitably neglect to “rest a while.” Neglecting needed rest leads to stress and agitation. A time of rest, for those who have completed their work, is necessary, obligatory and should be taken seriously: by spending time with one’s family and respecting holidays as moments for recharging.
  1. Then there is the disease of mental and [emotional] “petrification.”It is found in leaders who have a heart of stone, the “stiff-necked;” in those who in the course of time lose their interior serenity, alertness and daring, and hide under a pile of papers, turning into paper pushers and not men and women of compassion. It is dangerous to lose the human sensitivity that enables us to weep with those who weep and to rejoice with those who rejoice! Because as time goes on, our hearts grow hard and become incapable of loving all those around us. Being a humane leader means having the sentiments of humility and unselfishness, of detachment and generosity.
  1. The disease of excessive planning and of functionalism.When a leader plans everything down to the last detail and believes that with perfect planning things will fall into place, he or she becomes an accountant or an office manager. Things need to be prepared well, but without ever falling into the temptation of trying to eliminate spontaneity and serendipity, which is always more flexible than any human planning. We contract this disease because it is easy and comfortable to settle in our own sedentary and unchanging ways.
  1. The disease of poor coordination.Once leaders lose a sense of community among themselves, the body loses its harmonious functioning and its equilibrium; it then becomes an orchestra that produces noise: its members do not work together and lose the spirit of camaraderie and teamwork. When the foot says to the arm: ‘I don’t need you,’ or the hand says to the head, ‘I’m in charge,’ they create discomfort and parochialism.
  1. There is also a sort of “leadership Alzheimer’s disease.”It consists in losing the memory of those who nurtured, mentored and supported us in our own journeys. We see this in those who have lost the memory of their encounters with the great leaders who inspired them; in those who are completely caught up in the present moment, in their passions, whims and obsessions; in those who build walls and routines around themselves, and thus become more and more the slaves of idols carved by their own hands.
  1. The disease of rivalry and vainglory.When appearances, our perks, and our titles become the primary object in life, we forget our fundamental duty as leaders—to “do nothing from selfishness or conceit but in humility count others better than ourselves.” [As leaders, we must] look not only to [our] own interests, but also to the interests of others.
  1. The disease of existential schizophrenia.This is the disease of those who live a double life, the fruit of that hypocrisy typical of the mediocre and of a progressive emotional emptiness, which no [accomplishment or] title can fill. It is a disease, which often strikes those who are no longer directly in touch with customers and “ordinary” employees, and restrict themselves to bureaucratic matters, thus losing contact with reality, with concrete people.
  1. The disease of gossiping, grumbling, and back-biting.This is a grave illness which begins simply, perhaps even in small talk, and takes over a person, making him become a “sower of weeds” and in many cases, a cold-blooded killer of the good name of colleagues. It is the disease of cowardly persons who lack the courage to speak out directly, but instead speak behind other people’s backs. Let us be on our guard against the terrorism of gossip!
  2. The disease of idolizing superiors.This is the disease of those who court their superiors in the hope of gaining their favor. They are victims of careerism and opportunism; they honor persons [rather than the larger mission of the organization]. They think only of what they can get and not of what they should give; small-minded persons, unhappy and inspired only by their own lethal selfishness. Superiors themselves can be affected by this disease, when they try to obtain the submission, loyalty and psychological dependency of their subordinates, but the end result is unhealthy complicity.

For the last five diseases the list, you can go to the original article here.

Macedonia: Amidst the Refugee Crisis

Nikoal Galevski 2Macedonia, formerly part of Yugoslavia, has experienced war and a difficult economic situation in an environment where political instability is a constant reality. As a key transit point for refugees fleeing war, famine and persecution in Syria, Afghanistan and Iraq, Macedonia continues to grapple with more than 1,000 refugees arriving on a daily basis. The GLS is being used to equip leaders leading during this critical time in the country.

Nikola Galevski, senior pastor of a church in Macedonia and national coordinator for the GLS, said the biggest leadership challenge in the country is raising the next generation of leaders. It takes intentionality when picking the right people. “Even at my age, it’s not too early to think about succession and those who are going to continue and carry the baton in the future.”

The GLS is a unique platform in Macedonia. “When I became a Christian in the early 90s, I had a feeling we were experiencing leadership input that was 10-30 years old,” says Nikola. “It’s like having a job that was good 20 years ago, and then you’re laughing afterwards. The GLS brings us to the forefront and the cutting edge of leadership practices in the church, and encourages us in a direction that we would like to see – which is to be more efficient, dedicated, better leaders of God in Macedonia.”

Nikola has a grander vision—to stay close to God and to love Him and his neighbors. He also wants to see the evangelical body in Macedonia united, and humbling themselves before God, and each other, and working together for the Gospel throughout Macedonia.

“One day, as our time on the earth closes,” says Nikola, “I want to look back and see Macedonia changed forever with the Gospel. That is what keeps me going.”

That is the call he has received from God. It’s not just a call unique to him, but it is also the call shared by the leaders of Macedonia.

“On the behalf of all of us who are involved with the GLS in Macedonia,” said Nikola, “we’d like to thank all of you who have invested prayer, love and finances to make this Summit available throughout the world, and especially in this case, in Macedonia. Thank you for helping out, and may God bless your generosity. And for helping during this critical time in our country.”

Who Are You With?

Wilfredo De Jesus challenges us to boldly identify with Jesus.

When I was about 17 years old, I was walking after midnight with three younger friends down Armitage Avenue in Humboldt Park in Chicago. We were going to our family’s little apartment.

As we were walking, we ran into a group of about 10 guys who I could tell were tough. I wasn’t sure if they were in a gang, but I had enough street smarts to know this wasn’t good.

As we approached them, they split up. Half of them crossed the street. The other half went the other way—they were surrounding us. Without missing a step, I walked straight up to the leader. I’d never seen these young men before, but I could easily identify the leader because the others obviously deferred to him.

I led my three friends up to him, and I asked, “What you be about?”

He sneered. “We’re the Vice Lords.”

He looked me up and down, and asked, “What you be about?”

I said, “Jesus Christ.”

And my friends and I all waited for his response.

Everyone wants to be “about” something, to be “with” someone. Where I grew up, this was literally a matter of life and death. When I was growing up, I knew guys who had experiences remarkably similar to mine. They would be surrounded by a gang, just like we were that night, and were asked, “What you be about?”

Except they didn’t know what to say.

Those guys were beat up.

For whatever reason, The Vice Lords left us alone that night. I shook hands with the leader and my friends shook hands with the guys who surrounded us. I don’t know this for sure, but I think it’s because they respected us. I think it’s because we were “about” something.

Being about Jesus is different from being about anything else, because Jesus is our creator. He knows what is best for us. He promises us a life of purpose and deep peace if we follow him.

What are you “about?”

If you are “about” Jesus, are you willing to stand up for him, even when it costs you something? Taking a stand makes us vulnerable, but if we claim to know Jesus Christ, His compassion for the hurting will rub off on us.

Question: What are you about? Are you willing to stand up for it?

First Time Site Success in Gabon, Central Africa

Gabon is a very small French speaking country in central Africa with a population of 1.7 million people. Christianity represents 95 percent of the population. The church in Gabon is very weak and divided, so the coming of GLS to Gabon brings hope for leaders and the church.

By the grace of God, the GLS started on Friday September 18 with 485 attendees. The impact was so real for each leader, and it was the very first time they have ever experienced a world-class leadership conference. By the second day, the attendance went up to 506 people including church, business and government leaders.

Gabon National Security agents were sent from the President’s residency to inquire about what was happening. They wanted to know what GLS was all about, and why we brought the GLS to Gabon. We told them we brought the GLS to Gabon to strengthen leaders, the church and to transform communities.

“Before the Summit, I was not committed to my church, but after listening about the local church being the hope of the world, I decided to be committed, and to be involved in the local church, and invest all my energy, time and money to serve in the local church.” – GLS Attendee, Gabon

Thank you from Nigeria

“I work in a church, and it’s a bit challenging, but I love what I do. That’s all that matters. I came to the Summit because I desire to be a better leader. I dream of seeing churches united, and the Gospel spread. I also want to see better leaders being raised up that are good examples. As a young leader, I am glad I have the opportunity to be trained so I can serve better. God bless the ministry partners and donors for their support of the GLS, and for investing in my life and my leadership. Thank you!” – Piboere, #GLS15 Attendee, Nigeria

Peer to Peer Accountability: The Game Changer

Patrick Lencioni describes five practical ways to boost accountability in a work setting.

Recently, while I was working with a long-time client, I was struck by the candor and intensity with which two of the teammates were interacting.

Over a year ago, when our work together was still in its infancy, things were radically different. (Tense and strained are a couple of descriptors that come to mind.) In fact, Bill, the head of a major division of this organization, and one of his peers, Samantha, were close to a breaking point. Their different communication and decision-making styles had caused such friction and tension that they had lost respect and trust for one another. Bill needs details, process and time to reflect and communicate. Samantha, on the other hand, processes verbally and prefers to leave the details to others.

Bill and Samantha were essentially having daily stand-offs – I wouldn’t have been surprised if one of them had left the organization. And the effect on the rest of the leadership team was clear – everyone noticed the destructive way in which these two interacted. There was no hiding their contempt for one another, and thus the productivity of the entire team was dragged down by these unaddressed challenges.

A year and a half later, it was a completely different story.

So what changed?

Bill and Samantha learned how to embrace and practice one of the most essential (but difficult) components of team cohesiveness: peer-to-peer accountability.

The relationship improved when they began to let their guards down and sought to understand each other’s hard wiring. For them, the light bulb went off while sharing their very different Myers-Briggs profiles. They began to see that different communication styles didn’t necessarily mean ill intent. Then, it got intense. Bill and Samantha had a set of candid, difficult conversations about how their respective behaviors were being perceived by the other and the resulting damage. And, finally, they gave each other permission not to let those unproductive actions and behaviors (whether true or perceived) fester and frustrate. They committed to call each other out openly and discuss their differences.

The result – the team is humming now. It’s truly amazing the amount of time and energy that is now being spent on running their business rather than on angst, stress and the resulting inefficiencies. Not only that, but Bill and Samantha have helped the entire team reach a place of increased transparency. They are all more willing to call each other out on unproductive behavior and missed or insufficient deliverables. Even better, they no longer take these conversations personally.

Why is holding our peers accountable so very hard?

What I see with my clients everyday is core to human nature. We tend to think “who am I to give a peer tough feedback about bad behavior?” Or, we don’t want to disrupt the “harmony” on the team by calling someone out on a missed deadline. And sometimes, we’ve simply already made a judgment call about one another and we’re not willing to give a colleague a shot at redemption.

But the thing about peer-to-peer accountability is this – it’s probably the toughest behavior to master on a team. It often feels messy and uncomfortable. And it’s not something most of us have had much experience with. But it’s worth it. Teams that can call each other out on lack of follow-through or missed deadlines and broken rules are the ones that excel. They are efficient and productive. They have fun and their relationships are stronger because of it.

So how do you tackle this accountability challenge?

Here are a couple of tips gleaned from clients who are working on peer-to-peer accountability everyday:

  • Let your guard down. Peer-to-peer accountability can be truly effective only when you trust each other.
  • Give permission to others first. Take the lead in asking for help and insight. Ask your teammates to help you by holding you accountable when you happen to let them down, or come across the wrong way, or steamroll their ideas.
  • Assume positive intent. Keep your eye on the prize – which is the collective results of your organization. Don’t take feedback personally.
  • Give the benefit of the doubt. Ask why before you make a judgment call about someone’s behavior. Understand your teammates motives and intentions before deciding that their actions signal a lack of trust.
  • Get comfortable being uncomfortable. One of our hardest jobs as teammates is to be forthright with our peers. Remember that you are part of a team whose job is essential to your organization’s success. You owe it to one another to do the things you said you’d do and in a manner that works for the team. If not, you’re only hurting the organization.

If you and your teammates can master peer-to-peer accountability with each other, you have a game-changer on your hands. Once you start to see and feel your productivity rising and the tension disappearing – you’ll be humming.

My GLS Story – Changed by Great Leaders

H1Holly Pennington writes about vulnerability, faith and freedom at www.dreadlocksandgoldilocks.com. She lives in the Seattle area and would love to connect with you on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter.


 

Ever since my college years, my dad has planned his summers around the GLS. Every August, he and a group of church leaders from his church in Ohio went to Chicago to be part of the event that always wowed him. He came back with a different energy—full of excitement, stories and inspiration from his time there.

But he didn’t just tell me about it. He bought the CDs and gave them to me. I loved listening to the speakers.  But I was in college, I didn’t see myself as a leader, and I thought of the GLS CDs as entertainment to help me pass the time on long drives. They were inspiring stories that I expected to fade away once I arrived at my destination of real life again.

What I didn’t know then was that the stories from those CDs were becoming part of me; they were changing me. Hearing one story after another of an unlikely or unqualified person who was brave enough to say yes to the still, small voice within them was fading the line between me and them. World-changers like Wendy Kopp taught me you don’t have to be a charismatic extravert to be a leader. Many talks on leadership over the years were making me question my tendency to think that leaders are born, not developed. And Wes Stafford’s story about a pastor in a third world country who said he feels sorry for Americans because “they don’t have to depend on God to get through a day” still haunts me daily.

The stories of the GLS were forming what would become my core beliefs about leadership, calling and risk. I began to see myself as a leader and accepted a managerial position at work. I felt underqualified, but, because of the GLS, I knew that most leaders do. And I knew I had resources that would help me develop as a leader. It wasn’t long before I found myself growing others into leaders too. Instead of questioning the still, small voice in me, I started listening to it. Early last year, it called me to write.

My prior experience with writing was keeping a journal. I knew I wasn’t qualified. But, because so many GLS stories of listening were part of me, I started a blog and have been writing ever since. I also started risking more.  With words of Wess Stafford never growing distant in my mind, I knew I wanted a life that required me to “depend on God to get through a day.”  In 2014, I quit my job to start a business and write more, knowing that I would need to depend on God’s provision like never before.

This year, I finally attended my first GLS at a host site in Kent, WA. I am still thinking about Burl Cain’s transformation of the Louisiana State Penitentiary and how he did not “ask for the job or want it.”  And about Sam Adeyemi’s observation that “one of the most amazing things about Jesus’ ministry was that he gave power away.” I am thankful for Brené Brown because after she spoke, I finally had a conversation with my husband I had needed to have for a long time. The GLS is still changing me.

Holly Pennington FamilyAs I attended my first GLS at age 40, my dad hosted his first GLS at his church in Ohio at age 68. Nearly 600 people attended, and at the recent debriefing in Chicago, he and his team were awarded the “Rookie of the Year” award for their successful first-time hosting.

My dad started sharing his GLS passion by giving his daughter CDs, and now he’s sharing it with hundreds of people by being a host site. Because of his love for the GLS, I am pretty sure that I am just one of hundreds who are still being changed by the stories of great leaders.

What Are You Filling Your Bucket With?

Couldn’t we all of us could use a little dose of Bob Goff (TGLS 2013) today? Always inspirational, Bob is the New York Times bestselling author of Love Does, as well as an attorney who founded Restore International, a non-profit human rights organization operating in Uganda, India and Somalia. In this 30-second video, he asks, “What are you filling your bucket with?”

https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=16&v=AcMvKZIeZoI

A Glimpse of the GLS in Yangon, Myanmar

850 leaders and 90 volunteers gathered for the GLS in Yangon, Myanmar last week. The turn out was great considering the recent flooding situation in the area where a lot of local resources are being put towards crisis relief. The power went out twice during the GLS due to rain, but the team was able to get it back up, and the crowd was gracious and supportive. God blessed leaders through the GLS, and  inspired and challenged leaders with leadership and spiritual principles that they can apply to their cultural context.

Thank you for your prayers in Myanmar! Please continue to pray for the three additional events happening in the country this week.