Month: August 2018

6 Proven Practices for Better Meetings

Multiple exposure shot of businesspeople having a meeting superimposed over a cityscape

One of the hidden secrets of high performance teams and organizations is they have great meetings. I know this may come as a shock to many of you. Your disbelief is rooted in the reality of the meetings you attend. Generally speaking, they are awful.

Here’s the truth:

If you significantly improve your meetings, you can significantly improve your performance.

I realize you may be skeptical—that’s okay. Here’s my challenge to you: Be skeptical, and try some of the following ideas. They are field-tested, proven best practices in non-profit and marketplace organizations. You can thank me later.

1) Invite the Right People

How many times have you been in a meeting, and you realized, “You didn’t have the needed expertise in the meeting?” (We often refer to these as the Subject Matter experts.) Or, you realize you don’t have anyone in the room who can make the needed decisions to move the work forward? Avoid both these situations whenever possible. All you’ll end up with is wasted energy and frustration.

2) Have an Agenda

This seems so simple, yet is often overlooked. There are numerous reasons to have a published agenda distributed in advance. I’ll mention the two most obvious.

-An agenda forces someone (probably the facilitator) to think in advance about the items/topics of the greatest priority. An agenda says, “We are going to talk about the following things,” which means there are probably an even greater number of items that will not be discussed at the upcoming meeting.

-Receiving a copy of the agenda in advance allows people to think and prepare BEFORE the meeting. This does not seem like a big deal to extroverts, but can be huge for introverts. If you want their best thinking, they MUST have the agenda in advance—48 hours is a good rule of thumb.

3) Designate a Facilitator

Here’s the simple way to understand the value of a facilitator: he or she is charged with removing barriers to the effectiveness of the meeting.

-The barriers to anticipate and resolve BEFORE the meeting (e.g., no agenda, no place to meet, missing whiteboard markers and anything else that can be prevented.)

-Remove barriers DURING the meeting (e.g., over-participation from some, silence from others, failure to record action items, unproductive conflict, etc.) When facilitators do their jobs well, your productivity will skyrocket.

4) Document your Action Items

For some of you, this may be the best idea you will hear this year. I have seen this single tactic revolutionize entire organizations. Seriously. I have heard the following comment from leaders for decades: “We talk about a lot, but we rarely do anything.” If you will record what is to be done, who is going to do it and by when, you will be amazed at the effect. If you do the following…

5) Review Previous Action Items

Recording action items is a BIG deal, but the real power is released when you publish them after the meeting for everyone to see. Then, include an item on the next agenda: Review Action Items, and do it! Ask each person: “Did you complete your action item?” If not, you should ask them if they need any assistance and when they will have it completed. You then update the item with the new due date. This communicates very quickly that your action item is not going away just because you haven’t completed it.

6) Focus on Performance Improvement

Here’s my disclaimer as it relates to my comments about better meeting = better performance: not if you miss this best practice. The agenda for your typical meeting should be divided into 75% performance management and 25% information sharing. Yes, you read that correctly. If you have a 60-minute meeting, 45 minutes should be devoted to performance improvement. Performance management activities include: problem-solving, scorecard review, recognition and review of previous action Items. Don’t fall into the trap of making your meetings all about updates and project status. Use your meetings as a strategic lever to improve performance!

There are many other tactical things you can do to make your meetings even more productive, but for now, start with the list above.

One final thought.

I have been teaching these tactics for almost 30 years, and I hear the same question over and over again. It goes something like this, “Do we have to do all of these things?” You don’t have to do any of them. However, their effect is cumulative. The better, more productive you want your meetings to be, the more of these practices you should embrace.

I remember many, many years ago, I cast a vision for a team of volunteers I was leading in a large non-profit organization regarding our meetings. Remember, most of them had never participated in a good meeting, so you can imagine their shock and disbelief when I said I wanted our monthly meeting to be a “can’t miss” highlight for them every month.

I said, “Where else can you collaborate, solve real problems, celebrate success, find genuine community, be encouraged and supported, be challenged, held accountable, learn new skills, see concrete evidence your work is making a difference, and be part of something bigger than yourself?”

When I first spoke these words, it was only a dream. The day I knew we were on the right path was the day someone told me they rearranged their family vacation to be in one of our monthly meetings!

You can set the bar as high as you would like for your meetings. I hope they become so dynamic, so central to your success and so life-giving, no one wants to miss them.

You can always leave for vacation tomorrow.

Ep 031: Sheila Heen with Jeff Lockyer (Part 1)

The Global Leadership Summit Podcast

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SUMMARY:

Do you need to have a difficult conversation with someone but don’t know how to start? In this episode, Harvard lecturer Sheila Heen unpacks the challenging dynamics of these conversations and explores some common ways people get stuck. In part one of this two-part episode, she discusses the “What Happened? Conversation.”

KEY TAKEAWAYS:

  • Engaging in a difficult conversation means we’re invested in the thing we’re doing or the people we’re doing it with.
  • Using the right words will not solve a difficult conversation. The problems and solutions run deeper.
  • There’s no such thing as a diplomatic hand grenade.
  • In difficult conversations, we need to shift from message delivery into a learning stance of curiosity.
  • Difficult conversations have an underlying structure.
    • The What Happened? Conversation
    • The Feelings Conversation
    • The Identity Conversation
  • In a learning conversation, we acknowledge that we don’t have the full information about the situation.
  • Being curious doesn’t mean you abandon your convictions.
  • True questions are not a matter of punctuation. Some questions are thinly disguised judgments.
  • Listening is one of the first skills to go in a difficult conversation
  • Three elements of the What Happened? Conversation
    • 1) Shift from certainty to curiosity.
      • In most cases we are both right but just talking about totally different things.
    • 2) Shift from blame to contribution.
      • Blame looks backward, assumes fault and tries to determine who should be punished.
      • Contribution assumes everyone played some role, even if it was avoiding getting involved.
      • What we did might be reasonable, but we realize it didn’t help.
      • The purpose of the conversation focuses on how we can work together to get a different outcome.
    • 3) Separate intent and impact.
      • We often attribute motive and assume the worst.
      • Other people’s intentions are invisible and they’re often complicated.
      • Even with good intentions we have a negative impact on people.
      • Our good intentions do not sanitize the negative impact.
      • We need to pull intent and impact apart and hold them both as important.
  • If we can get curious about what’s going on and why, then we’ll have a better conversation.

REFLECTION QUESTIONS:

  1. Think about a difficult conversation that you are having or need to have. Which of the following actions might help you move forward in in your situation? (Check all that apply.)
    a. I need to realize the right words will not necessarily help the other person understand.
    b. I need to shift from certainly to curiosity.
    c. I need to shift from blame to contribution.
    d. I need to shift from intent to impact.
  2. Commit to doing one (or more) of the above actions to move your conversation forward this week.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Difficult Conversations
Program on Negotiation, Harvard Law School
Roger Fisher
Getting to Yes

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Sheila Heen
Triad Consulting Group
Harvard Law School
Jeff Lockyer
The Global Leadership Summit

2 Ways the Summit is Disrupting the Culture in Uganda

Uganda is not a country where people would normally look to find the poster child for great leadership. When the world thinks of Uganda, it remembers war, corruption, poverty and brutal dictators like Idi Amin. But the Summit is awakening something uncommon in Uganda that is disrupting the culture in the best way.

“How come things are different in Uganda with the GLS?” asks Betty Byanyima, lawyer, leadership trainer, mentor and key leader for the GLS in Uganda. “Why is it that when we share our story, people see such an impact? I think it’s because we are from a country where leadership has been so bad, and now people are witnessing something good that is changing the country!”

There are 2 major ways the GLS is disrupting the corrupt culture, and increasing momentum for growth:

1. The GLS offers hope to the next generation

But as we’ve gone around the country training leaders, the most exciting thing for me is seeing that people have a renewed hope!

“At the GLS in 2016, John Maxwell talked about giving a presentation to a group of leaders. Five minutes before he walked in he was told all these young people had lost hope in leadership. This was happening in our country too. Everything you think can go wrong has gone wrong with leadership in Uganda. So when I joined the GLS, I wondered if people would even really buy into this teaching. But as we’ve gone around the country training leaders, the most exciting thing for me is seeing that people have a renewed hope! People say, ‘We’re in!’ And this is what we’ve wanted all this time. We want to learn how to lead better in Uganda. We want to be a different generation.”

2. The GLS rallies people around the real possibility for a better Uganda

“We have a slogan here with the GLS: Creating the Uganda we want. We want to move from a heritage of war, corruption, bad stewardship, hopelessness and a bad economy to a country where we espouse five values: stewardship, work ethic, integrity, patriotism (just loving our country) and servant leadership.

“What does a better Uganda look like? Our big dream is for us to permeate all sectors of society and build a leadership legacy we will pass onto our children and our grandchildren of a country we are all proud of. And we are getting there one sector at a time.”

“We have witnessed this change happen in government, and we’ve also witnessed it happen in the tourism industry, which is having an impact on our economy.”

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When you think of the Global Leadership Summit as a tool, you imagine what can happen when leaders begin to apply the knowledge—when they begin to lead better. It impacts their families, it impacts their communities, it impacts nations.

Thank you from Uganda

“On behalf of the GLS in Uganda, and the whole movement, thank you.

“Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for your giving that has changed lives and made a difference in the way we lead our nation. Thank you for sponsoring the tool that has opened doors for us to go to leaders in places we never thought we’d reach. Thank you for supporting us in discipling our nation—one leader a time.

“Sometimes, as we do this work in our country it occurs to us that, this side of heaven, you may never know what your contributions have done. But every time we hear a message or a testimony of lives changed, it is our prayer, that just as the Bible says in Proverbs 11, God would water you, and bless you and your families. We pray that God would enlarge your territories as you serve him. I would like to challenge you to go that one extra mile.

“With every gift, you touch a leader, and every time a leader is touched, a nation gets better. We’ve seen this in Uganda, and we know it can happen in any other country. May God richly bless your heart. Thank you for your giving.”

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